1) Guard your heart - the way you interpret your story matters deeply.
If I believe in my heart that God is withholding marriage and motherhood from me, that has a direct negative impact on my walk with God and on other relationships. I've had to pray about that one several times, reminding myself that God is loving and kind and wise and powerful. And He is for me (He has good things planned and knows what will have the highest impact on His Kingdom in every season of life).
2) On Annie's podcast, a pastor talked about God's command to be fruitful and multiply, saying that pairing up and having children was literally the primary way for the church and the people of God to grow and prosper in the days when the Bible was being written. And now we understand that command has a double meaning... God wants the church to "be fruitful" with our lives and to "multiply" by bringing more people into His Kingdom (drawing them to Christ through our love, joy, peace, patience, kindness, goodness, faithfulness, gentleness, and self-control). He phrased it better and explained it with more nuance, but I appreciate the reminder that women without a husband and/or children still have the God-given opportunity and the responsibility to be fruitful and multiply. God did not leave us out of His Kingdom or of that command, and I'm genuinely grateful for that!
"So God created human beings in His own image. In the image of God He created them; male and female He created them. Then God blessed them [granting them certain authority] and said, 'Be fruitful and multiply. Fill the earth and govern it.'" ~Genesis 1:27-28a
3) I'm still waiting on His next move in my story, but I trust that God is good. And my highest hope is not in marriage or children, but centered in the stability of Christ!! ❤
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